Is it a sin to have sexual intercourse with a woman before marriage to her?

The answer given here will make better sense and deeper appreciation if the the questioner makes the effort also to read the entire lectures contained in the Grail Message, In The Light of Truth. The Grail Message gives knowledge about the operations of the Laws of Creation, and relates it also to man’s purpose of existence on earth. This purpose does not lie in engaging in marriages and having children. These are secondary matters, which if engaged in properly and in accordance with the Will of God in Creation, could also bring beneficial effects to the persons involved and the entire Creation in general.

In every intimate relationship between a male and the female sex, due regard should be paid to the likely consequences; on both sides. Sexual intercourse between persons creates a spiritual binding effect, which can last beyond a particular earth life. This could be helpful if the basis is true love, and mutual self respect. But it could also bring about unhealthy spiritual consequences if the opposite is the case.

Unfortunately however what many people term love is anything but true love. Most times it is borne out of a selfish desire fuelled by infatuation and wrong education or up-bringing. Each person must therefore search himself or herself deeply enough to resolve the issue of what the motive is.

Marriage is also something that many people misunderstand. It is certainly good and advisable to go through formalities and necessary ceremonies, but those are secondary matters. True marriage occurs when two persons of mature age voluntarily come together in a bond of love, and mutual self respect. If this happens then it will be difficult for impure thoughts to arise, nor selfish acts to emanate. Each person will be the source of joy and happiness to the other, and in that sense they would cherish every moment of intimacy as healthy interaction that sends up pure tones into creation.

The explanation given in this article is based on the author’s understanding of the Work “In The Light of Truth”, The Grail Message by Abd-ru-shin.
The reader is hereby invited to personally examine this Work. Copies of the Work can be obtained from any of the addresses listed here.

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